Pacific Movie Theaters - What do you think of people who goto the cinema by themselves or a cafe?

What do you think of people who goto the cinema by themselves or a cafe?

What do you think of people who go to the cinema by themselves? personally I think it would be alot better as you wouldnt hear *yap yap yap* in your ear through the film... but then again although I want to try it I would be embarrased!! and what about people who go to a cafe or restauraunt... my friend and I were in starbucks the other day and my friend commented on someone sitting alone - but comeon even though your alone you need to have a drink! Opinions ?

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Someone might be on their lunch break or whatever. When I was working I went to Starbucks loads of times by myself especially if I arrived 20 minutes early for a class and there was one nearby. As for the cinema, good for them. They are getting out of the house and that is one way to beat depression.
I go into pubs/coffe houses alone pretty often, maybe it's a bloke thing but just yourself, a newspaper and a coffee can be better than any medicine!!
I go to cafe's and coffee shops by myself all the time, cos its prob the only places i can get a bit of peace, and get away from work/family stuff.I find it really relaxing. as for the cinema, well ive been by myself before, and it was embarassing sitting alone, so prob wouldnt do it again lol
I know exactly where your coming from. I bought this special card allowing me to go to the cinema as often as i liked and sometimes i went by myself and one time i thought i saw somebody i used to go to school with and thought 'oh my God i can't let them see me alone at the cinema' like Billy no mates. As for people in a restauraunt i always feel really sorry for them and look at them as all alone and sad. This might just be my hangup and perceptions of being alone and i'm sure many people feel very different.
I think it allows a person some much needed solo time once in a while to do things like this. You also never know if a person is experiencing things alone in hopes of meeting someone with similar interests!
i don't really think much of it. they have lives for sure, maybe theyre just sick of the people that theyre usually with and need a day to themselves. now i hear that =D
I've been to cafe's on my own loads of times. Generally when I had a gap in between doing work or meeting someone earlier in the day and had something else later on. And sometimes you don't have much choice if on a lunch break or something. Besides, I find it quite peaceful and relaxing. It's quite nice sitting there with a drink and being able to read or write a piece of work for example. Feel free to try it one day, it doesn't make you any less of a person.
That they do not have issues with being alone.
What on earth could be embarressing by being autonomous and going to the movies or to a restaurant by yourself? I would see it as a sign of immaturity that one always has to have a "spare part" nearby to feel good about oneself or confident enough to go anywhere. What will happen one day when you are old and alone? Stay indoors with the curtains shut?
I will be going to see the new Indiana Jones film on my own. And if I want something to eat or drink afterwards, that will be on my own too. No problem. I wouldn't go into a pub on my own though, being female I just wouldn't feel comfortable.
I go out by myself all the time and am fine with it. I work weird hours in comparison with most of my friends, and I like to go to the movies or to restaurants - where is it written you have to have company all the time? Get over your insecurities and give it a try - you might like it. Even if you don't, it's a good way to get some self-perspective.
I lead a busy life. The girlfriends / friends I have had were also too busy to arrange impromptu meetings whenever I was hungry just to save me from embarrassment. As for cinema's. I haven't been in years, get the disc instead. But there was a time when occasionally I would get an afternoon off from work. Everyone I knew was working, and the pubs would be empty. I used to enjoy a good film. And looked forward it. I have absolutely no problem with going out by myself. Especially if it's somewhere I would really want to go to. Other people often spoil the experience, they have different likes / dislikes. When I go out with a girl we go where she wants. And mates it's an arranged thing, like parties, BBQ's or pubs. Hobbies are often with like minded people but there is too much to do without having to worry about how sad you look doing it alone.
I think it might project the idea that they have no friends or something along those lines... so I think people who can't do it feel insecure and feel like people will be judging them, because its what they do to others... I don't mean that in any horrible way... if you feel uncomfortable you can't help it. Personally I don't think sitting alone is something to critise people about.
I quite often go to the cinema by myself, I find it liberating!!! You just suit yourself and its not often you get to do that if you have a family!! there is no shame factor. Having said that I only go in the day I wouldnt be so keen to go in the evening.
I found in my 20's its very beneficial to my confidence to do this. A great character builder. It makes you strong and is an asset in other things where you stand alone, in life. If I want to see a movie, and everyone is at work, or doing something. Why should I just sit at home and not do what I want. Or maybe go to a restaurant. Actually quite a few people go to the movies alone. Most people are too busy thinking about themselves to care what youre doing. Going to a restaurant is a little more uncomfortable. Scads of people do it. Theyre on business trips, or travelling to see a relative in another town. We all eat. To overcome the awkwardness while waiting. Watch other people LOL Or many will read a newspaper. The key for beginning, I learned from Talk Radio psychologist Dr Toni Grant, when I lived in LA. This is such a cool trick. Ive used it for a lot of things. Do it in baby steps. You dont just walk by yourself immediately. Example : Get dressed -. no problem Get in your car-. no problem Walk to the ticket booth- no biggie At this point, youre in theater lobby. No one knows if your waiting for someone to arrive, come out of the bathroom. Unless there's a line..you go get a seat and watch the movie. Then you go home ! Just dont think of the entire scenario . OMG IM going to the movie alone. Baby steps. I told my friend this and she overcame most of the fear, of going to the Dr. The only fearful part is when he walks into the room, but she would be a wreck days before the appt.
Being comfortable and happy in your own company is a great thing. Ok, sometimes you need a coffee and you go in alone for that reason, but I really like going to the movies on my own! It's not embarassing - I would be more embarassed being somebody who always needed other people around to make me feel confident/assured!
Here's what I think about them. They're confident enough in themselves to not CARE if others wonder why they're alone. I'm definately a social butterfly, and have lots of friends, but I enjoy alone time. I sometimes go to eat by myself. I think nothing of it. I enjoy the peace and quiet. I haven't gone to a movie by myself, but I would. I even like to travel alone...sometimes it's good to allow yourself time to just be by yourself. More people need to stop being paranoid about if others think it's weird for them to do something alone, and embrace the beauty of it. What better way to relax than to go, enjoy a nice cup of coffee or a good meal, alone, and just enjoy the peace and quiet? So why don't you try it? If maybe going to a sit-down restaurant seems too intimidating right now, maybe just go to McDonalds or something alone. And sit in there and eat alone. Or try just getting some coffee by yourself. If at first you feel too awkward, bring a book with you and read it while you're eating, or just pretend. That will give you something to concentrate on so you're not just looking around feeling embarrassed. And realize one thing: besides your friend, no one really ever thinks much about people doing things alone. In fact I was a server in a restaurant once and I didn't think it was weird when people were there eating alone.
When I go to sit in a cafe or restaurant by myself, I usually have something to read, even if it's just the menu, or the SMSs in my cellphone. Amazing what good company a cell can be, hehe *..^
What's to laugh about someone going to a cafe on their own? I've done it a hundred times! I think it says more about the people who feel they CAN'T go somewhere alone for fear they'll be ridiculed. I quite enjoy my own company thank you very much. You should try it one day. Just keep your head up and don't pretend you're waiting for someone, just take a magazine and take your time! It's quite refreshing =)
There is nothing wrong with that.
i like doing stuff like that on my own sometimes,i have no problem walking into places alone,im not out looking for men etc,i just like my own thoughts and company sometimes,
I'll go alone if I wish or with friends I don't see a problem either way ................however if I go alone it's during the day when I'm off work and maybe they are not or have children to look after .................but yes it's easier to watch a film ............as for coffee to get one when you want ..........
I think either they like to be by themself, are lonely, are totally confident and dont care what others think. Either way it doesnt matter. Ive done it before. Never to a movie by myself but for a coffee yes. I was when my husband was giving me a break from the kids and I wanted to relax so I got a coffee and newspaper and sat for a bit and did the crossword. I like to sit and people watch too.
Nothing wrong with going anywhere by yourself. Sometimes that is the best company you can have.
I think that the person simply wants to relax and have some "me" time. I do it sometimes, because it relieves stress, and it gives me some time to reflect. Who will embarrass you? My friends joke about me going by myself, but it only lasts for about 2 minutes. Try see if you like it!
I think its so very normal to go to places by yourself.I do this very often despite having kids, husband,friends etc.I like to go to cinema alone,cause when I bring friend with me, she would distract me a lot.I also go for lunch or coffee on my own quite often.I don't bother waiting for somebody to ask to go somewhere with them, and I'm too shy to invite people to join me,so the best for me is to go on my own.But most of the times I like my own company, as I prefer to read a paper or book while having tea or to make few calls.Going on my own gives me more independence and freedom. So, if you feel like going to cinema or restaurant by yourself, do it its very normal.
There's nothing wrong with going 'anywhere' by yourself! Maybe you've had a full week of responsibilities and you just need a break! And I often stop at a Cafe and have a starbucks. I do it because I want one! My choices, in life, are not made by what others will think. I believe people are too involved with their own lives to be worrying about my choices.
Perhaps they have settled into a phase where its not an issue to watch a movie or visit a restaurant alone! Being alone can be looked upon with varying viewpoints by different persons!
I go to cafes and cinemas alone all the time. Mostly because I am a single girl and I like my coffee and films. Why should I be penalised because I don't have someone who cares about me? Next time you see someone on their own, don't feel sorry for them or stare... think about how you would feel if you had nobody to go to cafes/cinemas with. You'd still want to go. Anyway. Cinema is way better alone. I hate it when the person I'm with interrupts me - usually with "what's gonna happen next?"
I think sometimes people just want some time to themselves but like to be somewhere lively and interesting, I also think they are confident people, when I was younger I never would have gone to see a film or to a cafe` alone, but now I enjoy it now and again.